“Nissaram ithu nammale kondu pattum, nammle konde pattu” is a way of living. Most of us have had situations of utter confusion and disappointment which could have been avoided if we tried to view our circumstances a little differently. Every human being is granted is a short period to live, we spend a good part of it being afraid to leap. We spend a good part of it being unkind to ourselves, overstressing and overworking to the point where a day without feeling exhausted seems normal. Instead, take a deep breath,and think to yourself, “Nissaram, ithu nammale kondu pattum,nammale konde pattu”. 
This change in our perspective can make a huge difference in what we see.
Life presents challenges and obstacles, throwing us curveballs that can test our resilience and optimism.
This isn’t about ignoring problems or pretending everything is perfect. It’s about choosing to focus on the good, believing in our capabilities, and approaching challenges with a solution-oriented mindset.
When negativity creeps in, question its validity. Reframe the situation to focus on the positive aspects or potential solutions.
The company we keep can significantly influence our outlook. Choose to surround yourself with individuals who uplift and inspire you.
Practice self-compassion, Be kind to yourself. Everyone makes mistakes; don’t dwell on them. Learn and move forward with self-acceptance.
Remember, this thinking is a journey, not a destination. There will be days when negativity tries to take hold. But by consistently practising optimism, you can cultivate a positive mindset that empowers you to navigate life’s challenges with confidence
Let us all harness the power within, embrace the good thinking, and illuminate the paths we choose to walk that we would be confident enough to say…
“Ith nammle kond pattum”